iQueery = Intelligent Queer

The intelligent queer is insightful, educated, unsettling, opinionated, humorous and just beyond borderline obnoxious. He can be repetitive until he's sure his point is clear, contentious and cynical. But, if you can look beyond, you can see that his cynicism can be quite amusing. The intelligent queer has an orientation but it doesn't develop into an identity. The intelligent queer comprehends his orientation but realizes that it defies simple or traditional definition. The intelligent queer is culturally mainstream and gender ambivilent in regard to making social connections. The intelligent queer doesn't limit their social connections to only the gender that can sexually amuse him. The intelligent queer is guided by interest, not preference. The intelligent queer realizes that even if he had sex every day for an hour, sex would only be 1/24th of his life. Bowel movements can take longer. The intelligent queer doesn't dismiss the relevance of either. The intelligent queer equates indifference as "not caring" and at the same time realizes it's effectiveness as a emotional weapon and aphrodisiac. The intelligent queer celebrates and takes pride in his accomplishments and not in his orientation. Orientation is not an accomplishment. It is merely a state of being. The intelligent queer enjoys and creates controversy. The intelligent queer does not identify with the term "gay". It implies a sub-culture and thus denigrating itself to a sub-species. The intelligent queer is merely "not straight". The intelligent queer has no desire to identified with the HRC and regards it as an elitist organization, Junior League for gays. The intelligent queer doesn't want to be "=". The intelligent queer reaches be beyond mediocre and strives to be ">". I am an intelligent queer.